Nowadays many people glamourize jealousy by saying it’s a sign of love. It’s not! It's absolutely not! It’s a sign of insecurity and reflective of seeing your partner as an object to be possessed.
People should understand that not everyone is expert in handling this sort of things in love. They might feel empty or it might haunt them. Making your loved feel jealous isn't cool Idea.
Jealousy is completely a negative emotions stemming from both desire and insecurity, but not love.
Jealousy and possessiveness are not safe cocoons. It’s a prison where the prisoner has to behave as per the rules and insecurities of the jailor or be punished for it. There is no space or regard for trust, individuality or personal growth. Your love for your partner and your desire to see them happy will be used as a means to whip you into subservience and to force you to bow down to their demons. None of it is healthy, desirable or productive. None of it will create harmony and long term happiness.
To truly love is to trust❣️.....
Don't punish people for loving you by making jealous or reminding them your past life...just to test the love.