THOSE WHO FLY ALONE HAVE THE STRONGEST WINGS
"The hardest walk you can make is the walk you make alone, but that is the walk that makes you the strongest.
That is the walk that builds your character the most"
Ever feel lonely even though you have friends?
Emotional Isolation is a psychological state where one has properly functioning social circles but still feels emotionally saperated from others.
Feeling of a lack of connection with friends is mentally paralyzing.
One feels down all the time and does not even know why.
Sophisticated thinkers often find themselves lonely and isolated , not because they were excluded from social groups against their will but because of their mantal make up and circumstantial requirement to choose solitude on their own. Others often consider people like these cold and emotionless but that is not true.
They are capable of great compassion and love but they are victims of their circumstances.
These people due to their overly analytical outlook and objectively assessing behaviour often find themselves in contradictory emotional situations, like when one wants to express how he really feels but on the other hand he also knows for sure that the next person will never understand and then instead of expressing he buries his feelings and chooses to keep it to himself because he doesn't want to be perceived as weak and emotional .They do not find their emotions reasonable and in line with logic so they suppress it.
For people like them only two options are available, they can either be real and be alone, because they know it is very difficult or maybe even impossible to find others who will understand them, or they can pretend to be someone they are not and try to fit-in and deny that they are actually still alone.
They are emotionally vulnerable and hence they choose solitude to protect themselves from possible exploitation, a natural response embedded in our psyche due to thousands of years of evolution.
There is an innate craving for intimate social-bonds in human psychology and it is a part of our biology.
Self resorted solitude can quickly turn into feelings of rejection and self-worthlessness and even depression when one fails to cope with a solitary lifestyle.
One thing to remember is that solitude is never permanent. What remains permanently is the strength one acquires through self-development. Regardless of the times one has been through, their ability to persevere will define the path of their future.
Being alone can be a curse but it can also be a blessing, it is just a matter of perspective.
If you are alone as a result of your circumstances then become strong alone. Put in the time required to develop skills and build you repertoire of knowledge and acquire strength to change your circumstances.
Fight till your circumstances are a slave of your actions.
It will not be easy to keep going alone, you will have to suffer setbacks and at times you will have no one to fall back on, but stay strong and keep going.
This walk is hard but the hardest walks lead to the greatest destinations.
Always remember those who fly alone have the strongest wings and those who walk alone have the strongest directions.
I am not saying those who have support are weak and everyone must go at it alone to gain strength.
This is just for those who have fought battles alone, those who have always felt like they don't fit-in, those who have never had support in anything they do.
All of those who feel no one believes in them, you do not need others to believe in you if you believe in yourself.
Everything will be worth it in the end, so do not give in, do not settle and never lower you expectations to fit into the world. You were born to standout and lead and when you will show what you are made of, the right people will show up in your life who will truly understand you and then you will not be alone forever
